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Why Is He So DISTANT ? Pick A Card


For this timeless why is he so distant? pick a card reading, you will discover once and for all if that oh so dashingly handsome he or sumptuously sexy she is being sooooo emotionally distant towards you for good reason or if they don't feel the same way as you about the relationship ... 

Can your relationship that once seemed so romantic be repaired? Do you need to work on your relationship? Or is your relationship on it's last legs and doomed ultimately to failure ... 

Now all you need to do as the willing viewer for this video reading, is decide which one of the two cards you feel the most drawn to, perhaps the card on the left has for some inexplicable reason attracted your eyes to it or is your gaze fixed on the card on the right, please go for the card which first drew you to it … no umming and ahhing - be decisive !!!

You can either watch the full video or if you are pushed for time then you can move the video along to the time stamp points below …

I also roll a dice for each card, so even if you receive an answer from the grand cosmos that you'd rather not hear, you will still take a lucky number away with you from this why is he so distant pick a card reading …                                                                     

Please remember that this tarot cards reading is timeless so it doesn't matter the date and time that you watch this video - it will still hold importance, relevance and significance for your particular relationship situation …                                                                                      

Peace, positivity, prosperity and passion be with you always, best wishes from Ruby Romina x

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πŸ•Š️ Dice 2 = 3:12 πŸ•Š️

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πŸ•Š️ Card 2 = 9:23 πŸ•Š️

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Why Is He So DISTANT ? Pick A Card

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Will He Or She Text Me ? Pick A Card Reading


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πŸ•Š️ Card 2 =  4:26 πŸ•Š️

Will he or she text me is the all encompassing question for this timeless pick a card reading ...

Will that sexy she or handsome he that you met recently and who you exchanged your mobile cell phone number with, will this person text you? or text you back? ... 

Well no matter what the specifics are of your own personal will s/he text me (back) situation, the universe will give you the answer that you need to hear (though of course it might not be the answer you wish to hear) or the answer you receive via this timeless pick a card reading might be like sweet music to your ears ... yes or no - only one of those can be the answer for you ... watch this video reading to find out which one it is for you ...

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Will He Or She Text Me ? Pick A Card Reading

LOVE or LUST !?! Timeless Pick A Card Reading


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πŸ•Š️ Card 2 =  4:55 πŸ•Š️

You have been dating a particular person for quite some time and the sex is steamy and passionate but are there any real feelings of a deeper more meaningful affection between you both ? or is what goes on between the sheets far more important to you, your partner ... or both of you ...

For any relationship to stand the test of time, there obviously has to be a love connection between you both, not just a lust connection ...

So in this love or lust timeless pick a card reading, you will find out from the all knowing and powerful universe if the relationship you are in at the moment is based on love or lust ... does your relationship have the potential for longevity ... or will it burn strong but flicker out quite quickly ...

Find out the answer to this question by choosing which card has the correct answer for you ... remember no cheating though, you can't change your mind once you've picked card 1 on the left or card 2 on the right ...

Remember that there are time stamps for this video reading at the top of this page ... so all there's left for me to say, is sit back and soak up what the cosmos has to say to you ...

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LOVE or LUST !?! Timeless Pick A Card Reading

Does HE Think About ME !?! Timeless Pick A Card Reading


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For this timeless pick a card reading the question is "Does he think about me"? this is such a universal statement we make to ourselves when we really like that guy over there - or that man who is there in our every other thought ... seemingly taking over our minds and passions in the most delicious way ... However we need to honestly find out from the universe if HE really does think about ME or is it on your own part, just wishful thinking !?!

To find out if the answer to this question for you is yay or nay, simply hone in on which ever card entices you to pick it and then you can skip to the time stamp above ...

Remember what ever the answer the kindly Universe gives you to this love question, the great Cosmos has your back and wants only the best for you ... so if this special guy is thinking about you then great ... but if he isn't then the remember the Universe has the perfect mate lined up for you in your powerful future ...

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Does HE Think About ME !?! Timeless Pick A Card Reading

Online Dating And Offline Mating

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1) General online dating FunnyLoveDating.Com 

2) Niche online dating site SpiritualSingles.Com

Niche online dating app AlignAstrology.Com

3) Serious relationship dating websites 
eHarmony.Com (US) eHarmony.Com (Canada)
Match.Com (Ireland)

However if you'e not ready to join an online dating site or sign up to a dating app, bookmark this web page and come back when you are ready!

Even though there are hundreds if not thousands of online dating articles that you can read - what sets this online dating blog post article apart from the others, is that because Ruby Romina Dot Com concentrates on spirituality, self improvement, personal growth and happiness etc, the whole subject of finding love via the internet, is going to have a decidely new age, tarot flavour!

There are many many women, who during the course of a tarot cards reading with me, will keep mentioning that they feel stuck in their love life or to be more exacting, they feel stuck in their lack of a love life ... now if these just said words, resonante with you, if you can imediately identify with these words and feel rather deflated and dejected because you too also feel that your love life has stalled - because your love life is non existent - at the moment, then read or listen on ...

Due to this digital new age and the world wide web that it is now upon us, the way we do things has drastically changed - we no longer send our family and friends letters and postcards - we message them via social media or by email or text message, we don't buy birthday and Christmas cards much - we use an online card shop or send a text message, we don't go to the supermarket as frequently as we once did - because we buy our food groceries online, we don't eat out at restaurants as much - because we can order take aways via the net that are now delivered to our door ... well, well, well ladies and gentlemen, wouldn't it be a fine thing if Miss Right or Mr Right could also be delivered to our front door ...

Ok well the nearest thing to Miss or Mr Right being delivered to your front door, is Mr or Miss Right being delivered to your email inbox ... because street smart and savy singles - particularly milenials - no longer assume they will necessarily meet the one when they're on a night out with friends ... remember that this is the 21st century after all ... when it comes to meeting the one the default expectation is that you will meet that special person online before you meet then offline. 

Being Single Means You Need To Mingle - Online

Internet dating is now the precursor to offline mating, so if you haven't dipped your toe in to the vast pool of dating apps and dating websites then NOW is the time to become PRO-ACTIVE and use all your knowledge about the law of attraction, by taking action to restore your faltering love life ... you see it's not enough to try and conjure up Miss or Mr Right in your mind and imagination, or to repeatedly say a positive affirmation ... you have to do something practical so that your thoughts start to become manifest ...

So if you've set aside one night per week to go out and paint the town red with your single friends (or if all of your friends are married or in a commited relationship, so you don't even have any single friends to go out with) and you still haven't found that special person who gives you butterflies and that dizzy feeling, then now's the time to take heed of a famous definition of "Insanity - doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results" ... yes IT'S TIME FOR CHANGE ...

Finding Your Adam Or Eve

So you've had a recent Tarot or Oracle Reading and perhaps the universe orchestrated that the 8 of wands card plus the ace of cups card put in an appearance for you during the said reading - hence suggesting that you take action when it comes to your love life ...

Or maybe the chariot and the knight of swords showed up for your reading, thus the Tarot beckoned you to drive your love life forward without delay ...

You see the universe is gently whispering to you, telling you that it's time for you to be happy - happiness isn't selfish (as long as it isn't at the expense of someone else's happiness) - God, the Universe or Evolution (depending on your religious, spiritual or scientific point of view) intended for Eve to have her Adam and so by taking a few positive practical steps, AKA joining a dating site or signing up to a dating app - and with a little pinch of good luck from providence and a dash of positive expectation on your part, on the balance of probabilities, you will likely increase your chances of finding your Adam or Eve too ...

 Adam & Eve Pic Courtesy Of Modern Witch Tarot by Lisa Sterle

So where do you start when it comes to the world wide web world of internet dating? after all there are so many dating websites and dating apps ... so which dating service do you choose? which are the best dating sites ... well that dear reader or listener will be a matter of your own personal preferences ... You could choose to sign up to a -

1) General online dating website or app

2) Niche online dating site or app

3) Serious relationship dating website or app

Oh and of course, it doesn't have to be one or the other, perhaps to start with, you could sign up to a general online dating app or dating site, have a few dates (remember to stay safe and tell someone where you are going, who you will be meeting and meet this person in a public place and prior to the said date, arrange transport to get back home) ... 

Then once you have gained confidence, if Cupid missed when he shot his arrow first time, you could then sign up to a niche dating app or dating website - for instance you are reading or listening to this article, so chances are you have an interest in spirituality and metaphysics, so you could sign up to a spirituality niche online dating site or app ...

Alternatively you could be at a stage in your life where you deeply desire to get married or settle down with that special person - well if that's your hearts burning yearning, then now's the time to sign up to a serious relationship minded dating app or dating site ...

Though if you'e not ready to join an online dating site or sign up to a dating app, bookmark this web page and come back when you're ready!

How Long Will It Take To Find My Ideal Partner Via Online Dating?  

Or we could instead ask "How long is a piece of string"? You see you might get really lucky, the first person to respond to your online dating profile might be the one, they may just be your perfect romantic companion ... voila there he or she is, digitally waiting for you, in your online dating site or dating app message box or in your email inbox! 

Though don't be disheartened if you have to meet many a fellow or fellowess before you hit the soulmate lottery (as the saying goes, you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you get to kiss your prince or princess ...) but as long as you promise yourself that you will continue to explore the digital metropolis of online dating, with enough positive expectation and determination, eventually you're bound to get lucky and happen upon the one.
An Online Dating & Offline Mating True Story

OK ladies and gentlemen I'm going to end this blog post article with a true story about a good friend of mind - Steve ... 

Steve found himself single again after an acrimonious divorce, however he was determined to not let the fact that his first marriage had broken down ... and his second ... instead he metaphorically took hold of the chariot reigns and drove those sphinxes forward to where he wanted to be ... in a serious relationship ... 

For a while it seemed as though he was doing a metaphorical 2 of pentacles circus juggling act, meeting women for lunch dates in between his demanding work breaks ... 

At times Steve felt the metaphorical dejection of the 5 of cups when it was clear that the lovely lady he had met for lunch, didn't think he was so lovely - or that he knew the woman he met up with and himself, had nothing in common - or that there just wasn't that spark ...

Love Comes To She & He Who Believe 

Then when Steve was just about to give up with the whole internet dating scene, he decided to give it one last chance ... and another last chance ... and another last chance ...

But on one fine overcast, cloudy, windy and rainy day, while Steve was at work, he had a quick sneaky peak at the ladies on the dating site he was signed up to ... and he decided that he rather liked the look of Sharon ... in fact he liked the way she looked a lot ... and her profile description was lighthearted and funny, so Steve clicked the like button on Sharons online dating website profile and he immediately took action by sending her a message via the said dating site ...

Steve and Sharon met a few days later during their respective work lunch breaks ... they both felt that ace of cups ripple of new love ...

They both felt an undeniable and unexplainable sense of familiarity, even though it was the first time they had met ... they both felt those butterflies, they both had that oh so dizzy feeling! 

Tarot Images Courtesy Of The Golden Thread Tarot

Steve had finally met his Eve, his Princess Charming, his Queen of Cups, his soulmate!

And Sharon had also finally met her Adam, her Prince Charming, her King of Cups, her Soulmate!

And to cut a long story short - even to this present day - Sharon and Steve are happily married ... to each other ... 

The End 

 Ruby Romina is a Writer and Tarot Reader - you can have a typed chat reading with Ruby at PsychicWorld.Com telephone reading with Ruby at Psychics.Com and you can have a video reading with Ruby at DumSpiroSpero.World


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Men Are STILL From Mars And Women Are STILL From Venus

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There are so many women who during a tarot card reading ask me questions such as why does he keep pulling away? or why has he stopped calling me after pursuing me so vigorously? or I went on a date with him but when will he contact me again? etc …

During my late 20's, in my quest for Mr Right, I often asked the same above questions to tarot readers during tarot card readings

A very good friend of mine, Fiona, who had every self help book under the sun proudly on display in her living room floor-to-ceiling Ikea(esque) bookshelves - recommended that I should buy and read the now very famous paperback book (originally published in 1992) Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus, written by John Gray - which in this new age of the internet also comes in ebook downloadable format …    

Anyway I asked Fiona if I could borrow the said book from her to which she replied words to the affect of "no, get your own copy, the information is way too important and you will need to read the book and then re-read it and at times you will need to refer back to it, when he's behaving in a certain Men Are From Mars way".

I promptly went to the nearest book shop with an extensive self help section and carefully scanned the books with my searching eyes until I happened upon the book that sent me on my shopping expedition, plucked it from the bookshelf before me, quickly read the back cover, flicked through the front contents chapters list and proceeded to the cashier at the checkout and purchased the ultimate understanding relationships book ever known to humankind, Martiankind and Venusiankind …    

When I got home, I made my self an instant cup of coffee (lazy moi) and then settled my self nice and comfortably on my 3 seater sofa and then proceeded to read the introduction in which John Gray explains the very touching and emotional incident between he and his wife shortly after the birth of their (then baby) daughter which served as a prompt for John Gray to further research the differences and emotional needs that men and women both have as well as sowing the seeds of inspiration for writing Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus    

A few of the many chapters include, Men Go To Their Caves And Women Talk, How To Motivate The Opposite Sex, Men Are Like Rubber Bands, Women Are Like Waves and Keeping The Magic Of Love Alive etc …    

All Men And Women Are Equal But Different

The first chapter which shares the same name as the title of the book, Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus details that Men and Women are equal but that also … Men and Women are different … Now this may be a concept that the very politically correct gender anti - bias establishment might not like to hear, let alone evaluate - but nevertheless if we allow common sense to prevail, most of us will probably agree with John Gray, that Men and Women are equal but that Men and Women are different biologically (which cannot be sanely disputed) but also behaviourally and emotionally.   

Now it is because Men think in a certain emotional way, that Men expect Women to think, act and respond in this prevalently male fashion - and vice versa - because Women think in a certain emotional way, that Women expect Men to think, act and respond in this prevalently female fashion … and it is due to these differences and perceived ways of understanding and relating to each other in a romantic, long term relationship or marriage that many problems begin to bubble to the surface and cause (un-necessary) difficulties in any said relationship or marriage …    

If You Meet Me Half Way    

Ok so now we understand that there's an emotional distinction between Martian Males and Venusian Females but John Gray explains that this distinction need not be a divide and that by discerning this distinction or differentness - couples can remedy and repair and greatly improve their romantic relationships, in fact John Gray imparts that these differences between the genders should be appreciated ...    

Therefore with this knowledge, a Man can learn to respond to his Female partners emotional needs in a certain way that will be positively received by her and of course vice versa - a Woman can learn to respond to her Male partners emotional needs in a certain way that will be positively received by him …    

Arrest The Stress

John Gray imparts to the reader, that the S - word - namely Stress - is handled and coped with by Men and Women in very dissimilar ways …    

When a Man is having a hard time processing his thoughts and emotions, he is very likely to withdraw in to his own private space to spend some much needed time alone … Yet when a Woman is experiencing difficult thoughts and feelings she will talk … and talk … and talk …    

Let Him Walk And Listen To Her Talk

Now because a Woman has a natural inclination to talk, talk, talk when she's feeling confused, she naturally assumes that a Man will also want to talk when he's feeling confused - and when a Man is feeling muddled he is naturally inclined to believe that a Woman will hide away until she arrives at a solution to her problems …

However John Gray advises his female readers to allow her Male love partner to regress to his own private space and trust that he will come back to her in his own good time and thus too, John Gray encourages his male readers to listen, listen, listen to his Female love partner when she is in obvious talk, talk, talk mode ...    

Tarot And Talking   

Following on from the fact that the Ladies of the human species likes to thrash out her feelings through the medium of speech and communication, makes Tarot and Oracle Readings such a beneficial service because a woman who is feeling rather overwhelmed and emotionally mixed up, doesn't necessarily want to go to a therapist or seek counselling … but she needs to talk and so what better way of doing this is there? than having a reading with a Professional Tarot or Oracle Reader (apart from talking to her romantic partner).    

Feeling Needed Isn't Greedy, Feeling Appreciated Is Never Wasted    

According to John Gray, for a loving and romantic relationship to flourish between a Man and a Woman, a Woman needs to understand that her Man needs to feel needed and a Man needs to realize that his Woman needs to feel appreciated …    

This is because Men have evolved to be competitive but when a Man cares about and loves someone it brings out the best of him and thus he is therefore motivated to not only think about himself but to selflessly give to and care about another - his Woman …

Womenkind however have developed to receive and to reciprocate, therefore when a Woman is being taken care of and supported by her Man, she feels respected and validated and hence within her romantic relationship, she too becomes the best version of herself.

Now for the politically correct, the whole Men are givers and Women are receivers may be an uncomfortable theory to grapple with, however the premise of Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus is that Men and Women are equal but Men and Women are emotionally and naturally different and that gender politics should be strictly prohibited from romantic relationships if you want your relationship to thrive and survive!    

Gifted With A Book On Your Wedding Day    

To the negative, the reason why the divorce rate is so high, could possibly be due to the fact that as a society we are now constantly bombarded with gender neutrality - hence Men may think that a Woman ought to give, give, give - just as he has evolved throughout the centuries to do … and that Women may believe that Men ought to receive - just as she has evolved throughout the centuries to do … Perhaps the divorce rate could be lowered if every couple on their wedding day received a copy of Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus as a wedding present from the state … hey it's just an idea …    

Woman I'm Going To Ping My Way Back To You    

When a Woman is feeling freaked out because she hasn't seen or heard from her Man for a while, she needs to bear in mind, that once he has gathered and collected his thoughts and worked out how best to deal with whatever problem, issue or emotion that has at best upset his equilibrium or at worst, vexed him, he will return to her, as his reinvigorated better self …    

Furthermore, often times a Man needs to miss his Woman so that he can feel the pangs of emotional closeness and may indeed (even subconsciously) pull away from her for a while in order to create these exact feelings ...    

Perhaps as a side note (this is entirely moi, Ruby Romina's theory) just perhaps this is a throwback to the time our stone age, male hunter gatherer ancestors would go off for days to bring back enough food for the females and children of the tribes ...    

Therefore for all the married ladies (and those of you in committed relationships) please don't chase your Man whilst he is spending some much needed Man time ALONE … by chasing him, you will unwittingly cause him to seek even more time spent apart from you … let him miss you … he will be back …    

The Venusian Wave   

When a Man falls for a Woman it is often just as much about her bright and sunny disposition as it is the strong physical attraction he has towards her ...    

However - according to John Gray, many Men make the mistake of taking this Womanly state of mind for granted and thus alack alas, when his Womans mood dips and becomes dull, lacklustre or even melancholy, he may think that he is to blame and so to compensate oftentimes he will try and talk some common sense and logic in to the Woman … unfortunately when a Man tries to rescue his Woman in this way, she almost certainly will be unreceptive.    

This is because a Woman needs to be allowed to plummet to the depths of her emotional malaise and when she does, she will surely recover and start to climb upwards towards the light of happiness once again … hence Women are like waves, ever crashing to the surface and then passively drawing back to calmer currents before once again crashing to the sand and rolling back … over and over again ...  

Remember that all a Man has to do, while his Woman is feeling low, is listen to her talk and let her verbally thrash out her feelings to him …    

The Magic Of Martian & Venusian Love

In these times of high divorce rates, relationships that stand the test of time almost seem to have some sort of magic ingredient … and that little pinch of extra something, is understanding … understanding yourself and understanding your husband, wife or life partner ...    

So to keep the magic of love alive in your own very special and sacred romantic relationship - you need not do any spell casting as you will notice that magic is spelt without a "k" in this context - when it comes to the longevity of maintaining your intimate romantic relationship with your significant Martian or Venusian lover, it is imperative to be aware that at times being in a relationship - no matter how loving - can bring unsettling and difficult feelings to the surface - but Men and Women ought not hide or suppress such emotions.

No instead these unresolved inner conflicts from the past need to be dealt with in the here and now by way of either talking things through with your partner or a trusted friend, counsellor (or even a Tarot Cards Reader who will be well versed in resolving painful matters lodged in the subconscious) so that such issues do not make a re-appearance in your future, that you are bound to continue to share with your Male Martian lover or Venusian lady lover ... as long as you keep a copy of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus on your bookshelf … heck in fact keep another copy on each bedside cabinet … and another copy in the lounge … and another copy in the car … and another copy on an e-reader … and another …    

The End

 Ruby Romina is a Writer and Tarot Reader - you can have a typed chat reading with Ruby at PsychicWorld.Com telephone reading with Ruby at Psychics.Com and you can have a video reading with Ruby at DumSpiroSpero.World

Posted by Ruby Romina

Men Are STILL From Mars And Women Are STILL From Venus



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