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Men Are STILL From Mars And Women Are STILL From Venus


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There are so many women who during a tarot card reading ask me questions such as why does he keep pulling away? or why has he stopped calling me after pursuing me so vigorously? or I went on a date with him but when will he contact me again? etc …


During my late 20's, in my quest for Mr Right, I often asked the same above questions to tarot readers during tarot card readings
   

A very good friend of mine, Fiona, who had every self help book under the sun proudly on display in her living room floor-to-ceiling Ikea(esque) bookshelves - recommended that I should buy and read the now very famous paperback book (originally published in 1992) Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus, written by John Gray - which in this new age of the internet also comes in ebook downloadable format …    


Anyway I asked Fiona if I could borrow the said book from her to which she replied words to the affect of "no, get your own copy, the information is way too important and you will need to read the book and then re-read it and at times you will need to refer back to it, when he's behaving in a certain Men Are From Mars way".


I promptly went to the nearest book shop with an extensive self help section and carefully scanned the books with my searching eyes until I happened upon the book that sent me on my shopping expedition, plucked it from the bookshelf before me, quickly read the back cover, flicked through the front contents chapters list and proceeded to the cashier at the checkout and purchased the ultimate understanding relationships book ever known to humankind, Martiankind and Venusiankind …    


When I got home, I made my self an instant cup of coffee (lazy moi) and then settled my self nice and comfortably on my 3 seater sofa and then proceeded to read the introduction in which John Gray explains the very touching and emotional incident between he and his wife shortly after the birth of their (then baby) daughter which served as a prompt for John Gray to further research the differences and emotional needs that men and women both have as well as sowing the seeds of inspiration for writing Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus    


A few of the many chapters include, Men Go To Their Caves And Women Talk, How To Motivate The Opposite Sex, Men Are Like Rubber Bands, Women Are Like Waves and Keeping The Magic Of Love Alive etc …    

All Men And Women Are Equal But Different
  

The first chapter which shares the same name as the title of the book, Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus details that Men and Women are equal but that also … Men and Women are different … Now this may be a concept that the very politically correct gender anti - bias establishment might not like to hear, let alone evaluate - but nevertheless if we allow common sense to prevail, most of us will probably agree with John Gray, that Men and Women are equal but that Men and Women are different biologically (which cannot be sanely disputed) but also behaviourally and emotionally.   


Now it is because Men think in a certain emotional way, that Men expect Women to think, act and respond in this prevalently male fashion - and vice versa - because Women think in a certain emotional way, that Women expect Men to think, act and respond in this prevalently female fashion … and it is due to these differences and perceived ways of understanding and relating to each other in a romantic, long term relationship or marriage that many problems begin to bubble to the surface and cause (un-necessary) difficulties in any said relationship or marriage …    


If You Meet Me Half Way    


Ok so now we understand that there's an emotional distinction between Martian Males and Venusian Females but John Gray explains that this distinction need not be a divide and that by discerning this distinction or differentness - couples can remedy and repair and greatly improve their romantic relationships, in fact John Gray imparts that these differences between the genders should be appreciated ...    


Therefore with this knowledge, a Man can learn to respond to his Female partners emotional needs in a certain way that will be positively received by her and of course vice versa - a Woman can learn to respond to her Male partners emotional needs in a certain way that will be positively received by him …    

Arrest The Stress
   


John Gray imparts to the reader, that the S - word - namely Stress - is handled and coped with by Men and Women in very dissimilar ways …    


When a Man is having a hard time processing his thoughts and emotions, he is very likely to withdraw in to his own private space to spend some much needed time alone … Yet when a Woman is experiencing difficult thoughts and feelings she will talk … and talk … and talk …    


Let Him Walk And Listen To Her Talk
   

Now because a Woman has a natural inclination to talk, talk, talk when she's feeling confused, she naturally assumes that a Man will also want to talk when he's feeling confused - and when a Man is feeling muddled he is naturally inclined to believe that a Woman will hide away until she arrives at a solution to her problems …


However John Gray advises his female readers to allow her Male love partner to regress to his own private space and trust that he will come back to her in his own good time and thus too, John Gray encourages his male readers to listen, listen, listen to his Female love partner when she is in obvious talk, talk, talk mode ...    

Tarot And Talking   


Following on from the fact that the Ladies of the human species likes to thrash out her feelings through the medium of speech and communication, makes Tarot and Oracle Readings such a beneficial service because a woman who is feeling rather overwhelmed and emotionally mixed up, doesn't necessarily want to go to a therapist or seek counselling … but she needs to talk and so what better way of doing this is there? than having a reading with a Professional Tarot or Oracle Reader (apart from talking to her romantic partner).    


Feeling Needed Isn't Greedy, Feeling Appreciated Is Never Wasted    


According to John Gray, for a loving and romantic relationship to flourish between a Man and a Woman, a Woman needs to understand that her Man needs to feel needed and a Man needs to realize that his Woman needs to feel appreciated …    

This is because Men have evolved to be competitive but when a Man cares about and loves someone it brings out the best of him and thus he is therefore motivated to not only think about himself but to selflessly give to and care about another - his Woman …


Womenkind however have developed to receive and to reciprocate, therefore when a Woman is being taken care of and supported by her Man, she feels respected and validated and hence within her romantic relationship, she too becomes the best version of herself.


Now for the politically correct, the whole Men are givers and Women are receivers may be an uncomfortable theory to grapple with, however the premise of Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus is that Men and Women are equal but Men and Women are emotionally and naturally different and that gender politics should be strictly prohibited from romantic relationships if you want your relationship to thrive and survive!    


Gifted With A Book On Your Wedding Day    


To the negative, the reason why the divorce rate is so high, could possibly be due to the fact that as a society we are now constantly bombarded with gender neutrality - hence Men may think that a Woman ought to give, give, give - just as he has evolved throughout the centuries to do … and that Women may believe that Men ought to receive - just as she has evolved throughout the centuries to do … Perhaps the divorce rate could be lowered if every couple on their wedding day received a copy of Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus as a wedding present from the state … hey it's just an idea …    


Woman I'm Going To Ping My Way Back To You    


When a Woman is feeling freaked out because she hasn't seen or heard from her Man for a while, she needs to bear in mind, that once he has gathered and collected his thoughts and worked out how best to deal with whatever problem, issue or emotion that has at best upset his equilibrium or at worst, vexed him, he will return to her, as his reinvigorated better self …    


Furthermore, often times a Man needs to miss his Woman so that he can feel the pangs of emotional closeness and may indeed (even subconsciously) pull away from her for a while in order to create these exact feelings ...    


Perhaps as a side note (this is entirely moi, Ruby Romina's theory) just perhaps this is a throwback to the time our stone age, male hunter gatherer ancestors would go off for days to bring back enough food for the females and children of the tribes ...    


Therefore for all the married ladies (and those of you in committed relationships) please don't chase your Man whilst he is spending some much needed Man time ALONE … by chasing him, you will unwittingly cause him to seek even more time spent apart from you … let him miss you … he will be back …    


The Venusian Wave   


When a Man falls for a Woman it is often just as much about her bright and sunny disposition as it is the strong physical attraction he has towards her ...    


However - according to John Gray, many Men make the mistake of taking this Womanly state of mind for granted and thus alack alas, when his Womans mood dips and becomes dull, lacklustre or even melancholy, he may think that he is to blame and so to compensate oftentimes he will try and talk some common sense and logic in to the Woman … unfortunately when a Man tries to rescue his Woman in this way, she almost certainly will be unreceptive.    

 
This is because a Woman needs to be allowed to plummet to the depths of her emotional malaise and when she does, she will surely recover and start to climb upwards towards the light of happiness once again … hence Women are like waves, ever crashing to the surface and then passively drawing back to calmer currents before once again crashing to the sand and rolling back … over and over again ...  


Remember that all a Man has to do, while his Woman is feeling low, is listen to her talk and let her verbally thrash out her feelings to him …    


The Magic Of Martian & Venusian Love



In these times of high divorce rates, relationships that stand the test of time almost seem to have some sort of magic ingredient … and that little pinch of extra something, is understanding … understanding yourself and understanding your husband, wife or life partner ...    


So to keep the magic of love alive in your own very special and sacred romantic relationship - you need not do any spell casting as you will notice that magic is spelt without a "k" in this context - when it comes to the longevity of maintaining your intimate romantic relationship with your significant Martian or Venusian lover, it is imperative to be aware that at times being in a relationship - no matter how loving - can bring unsettling and difficult feelings to the surface - but Men and Women ought not hide or suppress such emotions.


No instead these unresolved inner conflicts from the past need to be dealt with in the here and now by way of either talking things through with your partner or a trusted friend, counsellor (or even a Tarot Cards Reader who will be well versed in resolving painful matters lodged in the subconscious) so that such issues do not make a re-appearance in your future, that you are bound to continue to share with your Male Martian lover or Venusian lady lover ... as long as you keep a copy of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus on your bookshelf … heck in fact keep another copy on each bedside cabinet … and another copy in the lounge … and another copy in the car … and another copy on an e-reader … and another …    



You can purchase the Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus Hardback Book at IndieBound.Org  

Or you can purchase Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus for Nook, Kobo, Kindle Fire & Sony Reader at eBooks.Com

And you can purchase Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus in audio mp3 / streamable format at AudioBooks.Com 

Plus You can also purchase the Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus Audio CD at -BookDepository.Com

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Ruby Romina is a Writer and Tarot Reader - you can have a telephone reading with Ruby at Psychics.Com and you can have a video reading with Ruby at DumSpiroSpero.World  


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Orphaned is the first card to manifest for this reading and blessed is the second. There's definitely a melancholy feeling tone to this reading, flavoured with the light @ the end of the tunnel vibration!


The energy I'm getting around the orphaned card is a literal one as well as a metaphorical understanding of the orphaned theme. If you have recently (or for that matter some time ago) lost a parent or both parents, then you're probably very much experiencing great feelings of sadness, longing and even an emptiness and void that can never be replaced - I guess it's true that when (a) parent/s die, they can never be replaced. 


When we grieve the loss of parents, or other family members or even dear friends, it's perfectly natural to feel sad and even depressed. It's important to accept these feelings as part and parcel and a symptom of grief and loss. Allow yourself to feel these feelings - do not berate and tell yourself off, over time you will start to feel a little better and a little less sad. One day you may even progress to knowing that you will always miss this special person and even become used to missing them.


A lovely friend of mine, said something so profound to me, when I lost a very special someone - now I don't think she was trying to be deep and meaningful but that's when spirit works the best through people!


She said words to the affect of "Some people go a little bit before you would expect them to and some people go about the time you would expect and others linger on for a lot longer than most would anticipate possible. When ever we lose someone no matter when they passed, we need to try our best to feel lucky to have known them".




Are you crying while reading this? Well good because tears are therapeutic and all part of the healing process. Tears are also welling up in my own eyes as it brings back memories for me of a very raw, emotional and vulnerable time ...


"We need to try our best to feel lucky you have known them" this is why the blessed card is so relevant in conjunction with the first. Now it may well be that you're not mourning the physical death of a loved one but instead perhaps you are getting or are now recently divorced or a relationship that was once the one you thought was going to last, is no more. 


Whether it's the death of someone or of a relationship It's so important to remember that it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Try to feel grateful for that person who has passed over to the other side or your ex who may now be in a new relationship. Every one who we have a special bond with has something to teach us or some kind of message. Try to work out what that wonderful person taught you, what did you learn about love and friendship and human nature?


Another useful tool that you can use when you're missing someone, is you're own mind. This technique is very powerful - close your eyes and instead of trying to remember that person, simply concentrate and go back there, go back in time in your mind, it's a bit like astral projecting back to the past. Try to really feel those special times and occasions with that person, feel the air, feel the laughter, hear their voice and yours, feel the love ...


This has been a special free oracle card reading just for you and you're broken heart, which over time really will mend. 


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UK EU Membership Referendum Day Oracle Reading - 23rd June 2016

This a FREE Oracle Reading - especially for the UK EU membership referendum - which takes place today on Thursday the 23rd of June 2016.

This is a historic event, not just for the UK but obviously the EU and beyond, so let's see what the oracle numbers dice have to tell us about the vibrational energy in the UK today ...





I give the first dice a good shake and ask the universe to tell us what we need to know the first dice is a 5 - it landed on the difficulties and relax area of the dice mat and the second is 3 and it landed on the activity area of the mat. The 5 and 3 area is relax.


As it's referendum day here in the UK perhaps the prime activity today is to go and vote, no matter which outcome you desire! As the 5 landed between the difficulties and relax area, it may well be that people in the UK may in part have a difficult day - when everyone has a strong opinion, one way or another - nerves and tempers can be frayed, so we must remember to respect other peoples points of views!

However relax is the dominator for this reading, so sort out any problems and difficulties today and then do your best to relax and don't worry about the outcome as Que Sera Sera (what ever will be will be). Go out and take a walk or do some meditation, have an extra long bath or what ever makes you feel the most chilled out!


Have a relaxed referendum day today! Positive vibes from me to you x

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UK EU Membership Referendum Day Oracle Reading - 23rd June 2016

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